The Elliotts before Sam

All,

We have enjoyed reading everyone’s updates, and I know Taylor would like to contribute to the conversation. At the same time, as we all to varying degrees know, the first trimester is an uncomfortable and taxing time and it’s hard to get up the energy to follow such great acts as yours. Therefore, I’m penning the outline of ours, to which Taylor has contributed. Your updates conveyed individual style, so mine is bullet points (though not drafted in Excel):

• We’re expecting baby #2 mid-September. To us relative newbies, having one toddler feels so all-consuming at times it’s hard to imagine doubling up, but we trust we’ll manage it with the love and care of our families and a lot of hard work.
• We were especially thankful for the wonderful first birthday Charles experienced at 1127, which included all four of his grandparents and his beloved cousins. Thank you for making it a special memory for him (hopefully) and us.
• After the party, my parents completed a one-week Disney cruise from Port Canaveral and returned to Oregon the following weekend. My 84 year old grandmother, Mary (who the kids call “nanny”), contracted the flu while they were away, so they were immediately immersed in her care upon returning. She seems to be recovering now, although it also seems to have been a serious situation. While we’ve been having a mini heatwave here, Oregon has had late-winter snow and temperatures below zero.
• For those of you regaled by the story of my dad’s hunt for the elusive rogue porcupine, I can report that it was trapped and dispatched early this morning.  
• We’ve hired a regular babysitter on Mondays and enrolled Charles in preschool on Wednesday mornings, which has freed up some day time for us. Taylor has been diligently working each week toward the required 40 hours of community service at the Nearly New clothing store for her Junior League provisional year; she has 12 to go.
• Last night we visited our new friends, Will and Sarah Lucas, who live a couple blocks away in our neighborhood, for dinner (including self-butchered pork loin). We were excited to learn they’re expecting their first baby also mid-September. I think Taylor and Sarah have the beginnings of a good friendship, and I see much in common in their personalities. Will has been the most prolific “connector” for us in Greenville, having introduced us to probably a dozen good people in the business network. We’re excited about the possibilities of future friendship and having babies at the same time.
• Our friends Deyllen and Masha (wedding in Bali) had their second child, Olivia, last Friday under similar circumstances to Charles’ delivery. We were able to stay in touch with them as they were going through it. Her parents are visiting this weekend, and we were inspired by our good memories of Jack Stack BBQ to send them a super sampler that they’ll hopefully enjoy as much as we all did. Deyllen and Masha now live in Connecticut and took our lead in buying a business, Tumble Jungle, with locations in Norwalk and Fairfield. [I’m tempted to order Jack Stack right this minute if only for the chocolate cake and the cheesy corn.]
• Our business search continues, with many possibilities and no clear winners yet. We’re currently in various stages of talking to (meetings, exchanging business/financial information, asking questions) 7-8 businesses, and our goal remains closing an acquisition sometime in calendar 2018. I’ve also been discussing an outside-the-box potential opportunity in online aviation training with a local company called Pathwright. [In the meantime, I’m developing a few new leads for doTerra and am enjoying the opportunity to connect with people that way. A friend of mine from Junior League is opening a dental spa in early summer of this year and will have a retail section for doTerra products as well as space for education classes. I am cautiously optimistic about the opportunities that will bring.]
• On the networking side of our business search, we continue to find Greenville welcoming and open. Several new referrals coming from each meeting has allowed us to connect with nearly 200 individuals in the business community here.
• We’re still worshiping at Village Church, which is an Anglican in North America church – something new to both of us. We’re considering the ACNA equivalent of membership and will likely have Charles baptized there this summer. It seems like half the congregation is small children, and a few of the families there have become our friends. [I have been back in touch with Chip and Beth Edgar from St. Luke’s as they are tangentially involved in Village Church.]
• I continue to enjoy the new (to me, since moving here) rhythm of 4:15-4:30am wake-up, bicycle downtown, 5:15am F3 workout, 6:05am “coffeeteria” socializing session with a half-dozen or so men, bicycle home, make breakfast for our family, play with Charles and be ready to start work by ~8:00-9:00, depending on what’s scheduled for the day. On Thursdays, I instead get a shower at the YMCA and make a tight turnaround to attend the 6:30am meeting of a men’s Christian community group called Search Ministries. [I make efforts to wake up before Charles does so I can at least wash my face and brush my teeth but sometimes he hears the birds chirping and decides it’s time for him to arise as well. He and I head downstairs for breakfast, which he eats voraciously and then finishes what’s on my plate as well.]
• Although I keep seeing headlines about poor TV ratings for the Olympics, that hasn’t been the case for us: we’ve watched a bit of the Olympics almost every evening and especially enjoy the curling, speed skating and snowboarding. We like Sean White but aren’t as into Lindsay Vonn. We saw the same commercial (on streaming) over and over but realized around the 100th viewing that we didn’t even know the advertiser (we guessed Toyota, but it was actually Samsung).
• We look forward to a few travels this spring before staying put for the summer. We plan to drive to New Orleans, to visit John and Tricia Gonzalez, and Pensacola, to be with the family, in mid-March. We plan to see everyone for Mary Michael’s wedding in early May. And we look forward to being with all the grandparents for a couple days during a visit to Oregon in mid-June. [After that, we will likely hunker down in Greenville since I  will want to nest for the new baby and hang out in air conditioning to survive August heat at 9 months pregnant. Looking forward to hosting as many of you that may want to visit in those months – especially for Charles’ baptism. Pensacola for the annual August week is still on the radar.]
• Charles is learning to walk! Every time I get out my phone to take a video he gets back down on all fours but he’s getting pretty consistent at taking 3-4 steps at a time. Grins like a fool every time and throws his arms up in the air as I say “Ta-Da”!

Love,

Spencer & Taylor

Bale in Africa

Hello everyone-

Quick update from Africa. It is hot here and getting hotter.

Hello everyone-

Quick update from Africa. It is hot here and getting hotter.

Our missions are most like the MEDEVAC duty I did in 2006. We stand alerts and are ready for anything.

Life is simple and fairly comfortable out here, as soon as you get used to be sweaty and dirty all the time. The food is not bad and most everyone is doing well working as a team.

We are moving into high stress days as we work on the plans for moving back to the previous area in which we deployed in the Pacific. Lots of work to be done, very little of it fun.

We have not received any mail yet, so if you haven't sent it, I wouldn't send it. I'll report as soon as anything arrives. 

My off time is spent beating all the maintainers in ping pong and reading as much as I can. We have a small gym that is usually pretty crowded. Some people work out at night with their red head lamps which is an amusing sight. 

Our chain of command up to the Admiral in charge of the Naval Air Force Reserve came out to visit a few days ago. It was good for them to see the austere conditions and learn first hand about the tough parts of the deployment.

There is a congressional delegation coming soon lead by Senator Jack Reed. I know him from my work on the Armed Services Committee. He is bringing some staff that I work with as well. They have asked to come see us since I am here so that will be an interesting day.

That's about all from here. I enjoyed the instagrams from Charles's birthday. Glad the Elliotts were able to make it to 1127 for the festivities. Hope you are all doing well.

Love Bale

Elliott Family Update

We've done such a fabulous job keeping this blog going (sike). Our cover photo is almost 3 years old and there have been two more babies added to the family! So for you, mom, one last update for your books. 

Charles Dalton Elliott was born in a blizzard in NYC on February 09, 2017. He came in 2.5 weeks before his due date but still a solid 8 pounds 1 ounce and 21 inches long. One day I will find the words to describe the whole event and experience but hopefully for now pictures will suffice. One remarkable thing is that just hours after hearing that Charles was on his way, the incredible Yay Yay had booked herself a flight to Connecticut when all flights to NYC were full, found a ride to our apartment in the city, dropped her stuff, hopped in a taxi, and traveled from downtown Manhattan to the Upper West Side. She made it in just as the blizzard was picking up strength and was there to see baby Charles minutes after his arrival. I'll never stop being thankful for her intrepidness. The doctors, nurses, and midwives were so impressed - they never really expected her to make it on time but Spencer and I knew - where there is a will there is a way. Moments after giving birth, I just wanted to hug my mom and she made it happen. Praise the Lord for the best example. 

Earlier in the year and in 2016, Spencer and I had been grappling with what we wanted for the next phase of our lives. We were loving NYC, our friends, and our general lifestyle but were starting to get an itch to professionally branch out in ways that would take us from our careers in New York. Spencer and I both love being in a close knit community, finding ways to devote time and energy in causes we care about, making decisions somewhat autonomously, and being more flexible with schedules. So after much thought, we decided to resign from our work at AppNexus and Sankaty, pack up our apartment in the Financial District, and relocate to Greenville, SC. We will spend the next 12 months or so pursuing dreams of small business ownership. So far we are off to a promising start as friends, family, and acquaintances are all reaching out to connect us with various people to make friendships and business partnerships flourish. It's been fun reconnecting with people from all phases and locations of my life!

On a sad note, I'd be remiss in writing a post without mentioning Pax. His health is rapidly declining as we've discovered that he suffers from Laryngeal Paralysis and likely has a cancerous mass in his nasal cavity. Both of these things make it difficult for him to breathe. He spends his days curled up on one of his beds either upstairs in our bedroom or downstairs in the home office. Pax and Charles are starting to notice each other which has been such a joy for me to watch. Pax sneezes often (trying to get that mass out of his nose) and Charles watches in wonderment. Pax is happy and as comfortable as he can be but it is difficult for me to watch him struggle to move like he wants. I have to remember the fabulous adventures we've had - he's lived an incredible life and I am a better person for it. 

Charles is six months old now and is starting to show a bit of personality. Overall he is a very happy baby. He loves to bite my nose and be tickled while he does it. Diaper changes are hilarious because he loves having his bottom rubbed (thanks to Lea's brilliant doTerra baby booty balm). We've been reading the Chronicles of Narnia since birth and are on the Voyage of the Dawn Treader now. Read them faster when he was a newborn because it feels like allllllll we did was rock. The boy loves to be rocked. But now he seems to enjoy the way my voice changes to tell the story. He laughs and grabs my cheeks as often as he can. Just started to eat solid food and so far we haven't found anything he doesn't like - and that includes broccoli and spinach. I'm sure that will change but I'll take it while I can! Charles has added such joy to our lives and I feel a great sense of responsibility as his mom. I think we are in for the best adventure and am so grateful to have watched Lea raise her brood - I get to shadow a clear expert. 

Life is good for all of us! We are happy in Greenville, excited about being closer to family for more frequent visits, and look forward to our new business venture.

Loflin Life Update

Hey Mom!

This one is for you ;)

Since I last posted, I have had another baby! Shocker.  John Holcombe Loflin was born on Oct 19th, 2015 just 9 minutes before his actual due date.  Sweet baby boy is almost 2 now and yesterday was his first day away from me at school for a mere 3 hours.  He loved it, I survived and we are moving on to our next life phase of raising up these lovable knuckleheads and finding a bit of adventure in between the chaos.

Peter is nearly 8 years old, in second grade and is every bit the big brother....constantly annoyed at his siblings, but mostly willing to offer a helping hand when asked.  He LOVES school, never misses a day, and also loves soccer and baseball.  He says he'll be a baseball player when he grows up.

Lucy is 6 in a few short weeks, in Kindergarten this year (seriously where does the time go) and her favorite thing in the whole wide world is candy.  Her nickname is candy land, she wants to know if there is candy in heaven, I think this is s direct correlation in her memory of Grano giving her candy every single day and Grano is in heaven.

Addy is not quite 4 and started 3 day 3's at a new school yesterday.  She is a champ and is adorable to everyone else...her mother does not also get her best side, but I think it's because we spend so much time together ;). She really should still nap but she thinks she is a big kid and so she won't!

I mentioned John above, but he is a joyful as ever, learning how to talk and his facial expressions when we finally figure out what he is trying to say are hysterical.  He plays nicely by himself but is happiest when all of his siblings are home from school.

Brendan and I celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary in April, he is enjoying his work as a financial advisor and we have made big goals for ourselves with our doTERRA essential oil business.  We're looking forward to what is in store for our big little family - but are a bit sad that the siblings will once again be on both coasts and we are right back where we started ;)

Here is an updated picture of us!

Back in the Senate Saddle

I last wrote as I finished up my year long appointment / fellowship at the State Department and prepared to return to work for Senator Nelson as his Military Legislative Assistant (MLA). I finished up a few State items, attending the premier of “Salaam Neighbor” a film made by the makers of “Living on One”. Two great movies by young documentary makers, about living in poverty in South America and living in a Syrian refugee camp in Jordan. I also took the Foreign Service Officer assessment, which I passed, but would not make use of as I transitioned back to Capitol Hill.  

            As MLA my main focus is on BN’s work on the Senate Armed Services Committee (SASC). SASC overseas Pentagon activities and leadership appointees and “authorizes” military activity for each year (the Senate Defense Appropriations Committee “appropriates” – pays for – those authorized activities. As you might imagine, there are a few skirmishes to be fought when these priorities clash). The huge yearly authorization bill is called the National Defense Authorization Act (NDAA). A large percentage of all meetings I take on behalf of BN over the year is people trying to influence the NDAA, reaching about 100% in NDAA season, which starts in March, right when I came back onboard the staff.

            The committee finishes the “Chairman’s Draft” of the bill around April/May. The personnel staff of committee member Senators then have about five days to read it in its entirety and submit amendments – things that the committee staff didn’t put in or changes the Senators want made. So, May was a busy month in the office. We did alright, getting a few more Florida-centric items in the bill, and won a pretty big concession from the Republican side with some accompanying language warning about the national security threat that sea level rise poses on military installations, especially in Florida. We were unsuccessful in extending the offshore drilling ban to protect operations in the Eglin Test and Training Range (among other reasons) but would continue to fight that during the year.

Meeting with Floridians in BN's office

              I would enjoy this year in the Senate with minimal outside distractions. I completed staff delegations to Florida twice where I saw to see the Air Force Rescue Squadron in Melbourne as well as the Florida National Guard Headquarters in Jacksonville. I went to Cape Canaveral and visited all of our space companies there and cruised out to watch a Ohio-class submarine make a test fire of their ballistic missile. I got to travel out to Hawaii for the Rim of the Pacific (RIMPAC) exercise, in which I saw a few old Navy friends riding around the fleet in a helicopter – as a passenger, which I hate! I also went on a Meet the Navy day in Norfolk, which may seem redundant for me (it was) but I got to take Carla, our Legislative Director (and my supervisor), and she had a great time and it helped our relationship in talking military to a non-military person.

Carla my LD in an MH-60S

Waiting on a rocket launch in Cape Canaveral

          

John and Margaret Dalton continued to be good to me, though it did cost an errand or two. I continued to go to the men’s group with John Dalton a couple times a month at Cedars. I also attended the “Caribou Wallow” with him, which is actually kind of indescribable. Basically, a fancy – and wild – Elks Club meeting. I also escorted Margaret at the Naval Academy as John was recognized as a Distinguished Graduate. I also hob-nobbed with some very fancy and high-ranking officials at a couple of events at the Decatur House across the street from the White House. Commodore Decatur was probably the most powerful Naval Officer of his time, not because he outranked everyone, but because of his house’s proximity to the President.

            I tried to get my culture on as well, making the most of a membership at the Kennedy Center where I saw “Merchant of Venice”, “Wicked”, and “Phantom of the Opera.” I also took in “Messiah” at the National Cathedral. And of course, Glory and I made the most of a summer in walking distance of Nationals Park with many “Pups in the Park” afternoons. I networked through associations like the Truman National Security Project, Council on Foreign Relations (professionally) and the Florida State Society (socially). Mack came in for a visit for the “Taste of the South” party, a very popular and fancy display of all the southern state societies. I also attended the Navy Ball as a civilian which was interesting but fun to be with all of my MLA colleagues to take in the ceremonies.

            Other visitors were Dad for his judicial cyber security committee meeting and Mom and Lea just after the inauguration for the Women’s March. I got to go home a few times in the year, celebrating August at Portofino (where I met Dale Murphy. witnessed Peter’s amazing Ninja Turtle Rod catch and enjoyed Lucy’s I’m a piece of work sketch) and BMX-ing for Peter’s birthday in Orlando. I also enjoyed a nice drive from DC to Orlando with the Elliott’s, including Pax and Glory. I made one other pleasure trip to Hawaii to attend cousin Troy’s wedding, which was a very nice and relaxing week on Maui.

After Peter's Amazing Catch

Meeting Atlanta Brave great Dale Murphy at a Blue Wahoos game

Women's March

            As the Mom Year (March to March) closed, my life started getting a busy as it ever was. In 2016 I was selected for command of HSC-85 in San Diego. I would start drilling there instead of Norfolk in the summer of 2016 which was difficult. Most of my drill periods including training to be a Commanding Officer, including Aviation Commanding Officer Training in Pensacola in October. I became Executive Officer in January 2017 as I began a difficult year of traveling back and forth to San Diego while getting ready to be mobilized for deployment once again.

My Aviation Preflight Indoctrination Class Picture from 2002

Glory enjoying her travels

Pups in the Park

The new Executive Officer of the HSC-85 Firehawks

Farewell to Foggy Bottom

With business of State completed...

Kidding, of course. The bureaucrat's life is sometimes dull, but business is never finished. That said, I'm wrapping up my fellowship at the State Department and headed back to work for Senator Nelson as his Military Legislative Assistant. I am very excited about the new permanent position and am looking forward to rejoining the team.

My time at state was incredibly rewarding. I worked in the Secretary's Office of Global Partnerships where I met some great people and learned a lot about working on teams. I also worked in the Bureau of Conflict and Stabilization Operations, where I was pleased no matter how depressing the world gets, there are people who care deeply about fixing it. Many thanks to all those who taught me along the way!

The staff of the Secretary's Office of Global Partnerships

Hacking for sustainable fisheries in the Georgia Aquarium

On the East Lawn for the state arrival of the Prime Minister of Japan

"The Definitive Treaty of Peace and Friendship between His Britannic Majesty and the United States of America.
Signed at Paris, the 3rd of September 1783."

Traveling Mercies

Hi Friends!!

Bale, Lea, Mack. . . . it appears that the blog link that I have is broken. The blog that shows up only has entries from my last post on May 10. This can't be right. . .

Not much has happened over here since May. Sike. I am literally going through the "moments" feature in my phone's photo stream to make sure that I capture all the major hits. It has been a hectic, long, wonderful Summer and Fall. SBE and I went through a span of 6 weeks or so where we were away from NYC every weekend. All the events were incredibly fun and we would definitely do it again but it was a bit crazy trying to do all of that traveling and stay on top of things at work and make sure that Pax was well cared for.

I included a list of all the things that I could remember from my head and from my "moments" album on my phone. We did quite a bit of exploring! One of my favorite of the "New York Activities" was the long hike around Lake Awosting and the carrier roads of Minnewaska State Park. It was great to get out of the city and get outdoors a bit. Pax had a ball running wherever he wanted without a leash and swimming in whatever body of water he could find (even if it was cold). I am starting to appreciate the plethora of outdoor activities and other scenery to be done/seen outside of Manhattan. It is pretty amazing that with just a 2 hour drive, we can be in the woods. Part of the reason that I love that hike is because we tried hard to find campgrounds nearby so that we could spend the night under the stars and use our new tent. The only campground available. . . Yogi Bear's Jellystone Park. Full of long-time RV residents, family reunions, and large groups of kids. It was so awful it was hilarious. Pax slept at our feet most of the night but eventually gorilla crawled his way up to the top of our sleeping bag and snuggled in.

Some of my clients at AppNexus are based in Tel Aviv. In June, after just 6 weeks at my new gig, I got to travel to Tel Aviv for client meetings and then tourist for a day in Jerusalem. What an amazing experience. Truth be told (and all the blog readers know) I was a nervous wreck. And actual wreck. I couldn't think long enough to make any substantial decisions and was terrified that my clients and coworkers would find out that I knew absolutely nothing about advertising technology. But after a first few meetings shadowing my colleagues and some pep talks via FaceTime from SBE and my parents, things settled down and I was able to enjoy the experience: amazing food, good company, intellectual stimulus, cultural differences, and spiritual awakening. I might not ever get an experience like that again. The stress and anxiety wasn't really worth it - but I learned so much about myself, and my co-workers, and truly felt the presence of the Holy Spirit

As always, I love when my people come up north to hang out. We were lucky enough to get a lot of visitors these last 6 months! It's both a good reason to keep soft clothes on and just enjoy each other's company (LDL and LTD) or venture out and find new places to eat, new NYC things to explore (LTD, RBD2, RBD3). SBE and I were told that our pull out couch is fabulously comfortable so if you've been looking for a reason to visit, that info might help.

These past 6 months also included mine and Spencer's one year wedding anniversary as well as my 34th birthday. Both were incredible. We celebrated our anniversary with a early dinner at Capitol Grille. Just happens to be the NYC counterpart to the Orlando restaurant where SBE asked my dad for my hand in marriage. SBE thinks of things like that when he plans. Because it was the early bird special, we had practically the whole place to ourselves and a attentive, but not too attentive server who thought we were cute and kept bringing us more drinks to try (on the house). We followed dinner up with a trip to Radio City Music Hall to see Grace Potter in concert. She did not disappoint. I loved every single minute of it - but especially that one moment when she came up to the Mezzanine level and I got to hold her hand. Seriously. I completely blew my cover as a fan girl. It was amazing.

That's all for now - mainly because I didn't want to write a novel. I'll leave you with my list of events and trips for the last few months and a collection of pictures.


New York Activities
Women's National Team Summer Send-Off Series at Red Bull Stadium
New Kids on the Block / Nelly / TLC Concert at Madison Square Garden
Minnewaska State Park - 13 mile hike & Jellystone Camping
Wave Hill Gardens - The Bronx
US Open Tennis Championships - Flushing, Queens
REI Camping and Rock Climbing - New Paltz, NY
Hard Hat Tour of Ellis Island
Grace Potter Magical Midnight Tour - Radio City Music Hall
Brandi Carlyle - Radio City Music Hall
The Revivalists - Irving Theater
Hamilton the Musical

Travels
Tel Aviv and Jerusalem, Israel - Work
4th of July Celebration at St. Georges Island, FL with Daltons, Loflins, Youngs, Lewellyns
Bend, Oregon with the Elliotts and Wilcox's - hiked South Sister
Caroline and Ted's Wedding in Bozeman, MT
Bonny and David's Wedding in Bend, OR


Visitors
LTD and LDL -
RBD 3 - May and November
LTD and RBD2 - September