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Tuesday, June 21

The Weather is Here I Wish You Were Beautiful

LDL wrote a blog post earlier about our awesome trip back to the great Sunshine State. The whole thing was Planes, Trains and Automobiles and in typical D family travel fashion, very few things went smoothly. Thankfully, one thing that did was P sitting quietly in his seat entertaining me and the people behind us with his love of waving on the plane. That was pretty phenomenal.

It's HOT in Florida and being life-long Gator fans, there is no real love for anything remotely related to Tallahassee (especially given the current governor but that's not worth mentioning). 102 degrees. Car A/C appears to stop working. LDL in backseat while P sleeps, watching sweat beads form on his head. FTD in front seat with giant plastic ball at her feet desperately moving air vents to get the flow starting again. LTD driving in quiet desperation, knowing that things are about to get, well, heated.

LDL - Can you guys send some air back this way? It's boiling back here.
FTD - I know! All the air vents are pointed back there but we're hot too.
LTD - Winces in silence, flashing back to days spent traveling in a station wagon.

5 minutes later. . .

LDL - Seriously, if we don't get some air here P is going wake up screaming hot.
LTD - We're doing the best we can. The car reads 102 degrees and no air is circulating.
LDL - FTD, why don't you look in the manual to see how to fix it.
FTD - reading manual on all climate control options and follows directions to reset AC. Put AC back on Auto. Wait for it to re-set itself, just like the manual says. Nothing happens.

2 minutes later. . .

LDL - Will you let me see the manual?
FTD - scowling
LDL - praying fervently
LDL - I KNOW you're going to be irritated but P can't regulate his body temperature like you can and he is on fire. I know you don't really care about anything but you're own comfort but I have to look out for both of us.
FTD - Yeah, because clearly I forgot how to READ in this heat and you're going to be able to figure out the climate controls from the backseat even though I've already followed the outlined instructions and you have to give it time to cool. The air is 102 degrees after all, its not going to happen in 2 seconds.
LDL - Whatever. Just give me the book.
FTD - throws book toward LDL without looking.
LTD - Maybe we should just pull over and head inside for a little while. . . .

1 minute later. . .

LDL - Great. P is awake and sweating and breathing hard already.
FTD - This giant plastic ball is melting my skin off.
LTD - Thinks to herself, please, dear Jesus, please let there be an exit soon. Look! Publix!

The whole clan practically jumps out of the car and races for the Publix and it's ice cold, air conditioned aisles of goodness. P laughs as I run through the store with him in the cart. LDL and LTD head straight for the freezers. We all load the cart with frozen goodies, extra water and I grab some frozen lemonade mix and put it on P's legs to cool him down. The boy is going to need anti-perspirant before he turns 5.

A few king sized ice cream sandwiches and a game of kick ball in parking lot later we braced ourselves for the rest of the ride. Thankfully, God was laughing at us because things started working again. P and I made up over Kung Fu Panda on the ipad and LDL put up with that plastic ball at her feet.

Road trips build character.

Monday, June 20

and now!? fathers day!

we woke up from our
super,
awesome,
incredible
birthday party.

and set out to d.c. for the
nationals v. orioles game
for fathers day.

p man napped in the car (never happens)
woke up just in time to meet J &M,
our gracious hosts,
and head to the ball park.


we were nationals fans this day,
we brought no luck to d.c. as they played
pretty terribly.
but we had a great time!

p was perfect, loving mostly the fans behind us...
and their peanuts and beer bottles.
he snacked on frozen lemonade,
survived a downpour during the
presidents race,
and clapped along with nats fans, and O's fans.
he loves to clap.

and then,
he waved to everyone on the way out.
precious.

 everyone got nats hats to take home...

 not only does p love to wear his around the house,
he wants us to wear ours too.


happy fathers day b!
and of course,
happy fathers day to the one and only Judge D.
you're the men.
p man has such great role models,
thanks for that.
love you both!!

happy 30th birthday B!

bml is 30!
we were late with our party, having it this past saturday.
we intended on a small get together,
but including kids small quickly turns into
chaos.
i loved it.


3 kiddie pools,
 a plastic slide into a soap filled pool,
corn hole (which was a big hit with p man who "helped" everyone score),
lots of big, fun, bouncy, balls.



the menu?
burgers, dogs, black bean salsa, corn on the cob,
brussel sprouts (bml's favorite...gross),
frozen grapes, watermelon & lastly,
my mom's famous chocolate sheet cake.
which was delicious.
success.

p was begging for cake.

so were all of the other kids -
bml had to rush to blow out the candles,
he had lots of help with singing and instruction
from the little ones.
it was sweet.

it would be nice to have ONE nice family photo,
we were hot, and sweaty, and sticky, and tired.
and loving every minute of being 30.

seriously, this was a great project.
celebrating each other, and our friends.
from here on out we are having birthday parties,
and celebrations for every occasion,
why not!?

we were exhausted at the end of the day,
but in love with our lives.
can't ask for a better evening than that.
we are blessed.

happy birthday b.


Monday, June 13

hiatus

well, it looks like everyone has taken
a blogging hiatus.
we were all out of our respective towns a couple weeks ago,
celebrating birthdays and summer.

BML and CMD share a birthday,
RBD follow shortly after.
so all of the boys headed out to Idaho for some
celebratory fly fishing...in the warm Idaho
SNOW.
(i am SURE one of them will tell you about it in the near future.)

on the other hand, FTD, P man, and I
headed to the Emerald coast to visit with mom/bluegee
and grandmother.

is there anything more beautiful?

maybe bathtime with aunt t
 (who learned quickly to just stay in her bathing suit)

or popsicles on the porch...

or fried crab claws, fried fish, and fried shrimp with GG.

we did it all in our short, sweet, wonderful visit
back to our home state.
we beached...

which P loved...the harder the wave smacked him in the face,
the happier his giggles.
the more sand aunt t threw in his face,
the bigger his grin.

we pooled...
 (at 830am - would hate to be there with the crowds)


and on the way back to o-town,
we over heated.
big time.
so, as every floridian would do, we stopped.
at publix.  the coldest, most awesome grocery store
in existance.

p man stole my ice cream sandwich.
it was 102 degrees.
and the car air conditioner went out on us.
he was a trooper.
FTD and I....well...that's another story.

Thursday, June 9

Gems and Big Skies

Most people probably don't think of Idaho or Montana first when they think of taking a vacation. What could be so awesome about a bunch of potatoes and cows. Well, actually looking at both of these seemingly mundane things for acres and acres, you gain an appreciation for the farmers who provide food stuffs for the rest of us(or at least I do). Even if you don't have a sense of amazement from the rolling fields, it is impossible to look over miles of land with snow-capped mountains in the distance and not be awe-stuck. It truly is a beautiful and under-appreciated area.



So this is where BML, RBDII, and RBDIII, and I went to celebrate a few birthdays and to just generally have a great time. We went to the same location last year and had an incredible time, so we were all pumped to get back and 'rip some lip'.

We had been warned that the weather was a little shaky, but when we arrived, it was perfect, so clearly we(I) thought that it would stay that way...

Day 1 of fishing:
"I don't think the heavy stuffs gunna come down for quite a while"

Cold. Like, really cold. We drove down to the put-in spot for the drift boats and geared up for a cold, but awesome day of fishing. Then it started to mist. I was concerned. Mist was followed by rain. I was quickly miserable. Like, so miserable that, without my asking, our guide brought out a skull cap and a couple pairs of gloves for me. Now, you can't really fly-fish with gloves on, but, today, you could.



Thankfully RBDIII caught a fish fairly early on in the ordeal, so that certainly lightened the mood a little, since we knew we wouldn't be shut out. At one point, I had to literally take a break from fishing to sit down and warm my hands. Which may or may not have been directly linked to the fact, that I too had caught a fish and stuck my hands into the icy water to retrieve it for a picture.



Finally it stopped raining, which was awesome. It was still real cold. We all caught some fish, which was great, and we finished the drift at about 3. Some(BML and RBDII) thought we were done for the day. Au contraire mon frere. We went back to the shop to drop off the boats and headed to "The Outlet". Oh yeah, when we stopped, it started to snow. No lie. Snow.

The Outlet was pretty awesome. I found a little honey hole and was just crushing fish(As were others, but I was mainly concerned about me). Totally made up for being miserable for the first 2/3 of the day.






Day 2:
"We are fishing today my friends"

Well, the morning weather wasn't much better on the second day of our adventure. However, we were all pretty excited for what was in store. The plan was to head into Yellowstone and fish what is called "Firehole", named for it's "warm" water. (Sidenote, there was some warm water, it just wasn't the water we were thigh deep in)

The drive from our place to the "put-in" was pretty long, but most of it was interesting once we got into the park. The Buffalo were walking literally in the road for part of the way, and didn't even have the courtesy to have their "wide load" signs and light on. But, I digress. We pulled over on the side of the road (no lie) and geared up to hike to our first location. As we hiked the mile plus to the river, we spotted a lone Buffalo just kinda hanging out. It caught us by surprise (or at least it did me. I wasn't interested in being "Buffalo'ed")



I was fishing pretty terribly early, so when we took an early lunch, I was not disappointed. After lunch, everyone went back to fishing, but I took a little cat-nap, because I needed to rest up and refocus for the remainder of the day. Our guide was kind enough to document my nap for me.

We bounced around to a few other spots in Yellowstone, which was just really cool. It was interesting/hilarious the looks we got from other tourists who couldn't believe we were just parking and walking into the water. High comedy. I think everyone managed to at least catch a couple fish along the way, so it was a highly successful day when you couple the fishing with the incredible landscape.



Day 3:
"The Sun'll come out, tomorrow"

Blue skies and warm weather. What a great day to finish off a great trip. Well, it wasn't exactly warm early in the day, as I still had on most of my "warm-weather gear" but, it certainly looked like it might warm up as the day went on. I will admit, I struggled early in day 3 as well. Just not a fast started I guess. I was pretty impressed with my ability to get my lures out of snags. I was told to cast aggressively, so I did. Really tried to get under those trees, in tight to the bank, and let the drift run a little closer to rocks than normal. Of course, right as our guide would say, "Ok, this is a great bank, we need both guys casting good here." Dad and I would inevitably both get hung up. It happened often, it was kinda funny, but mostly not.



Dad was able to rip some monsters from the depth, as I, the birthday boy (one of them) was shut out. Pretty much got no-hit by the fish during drift number one. The good news was that it was warm enough to strip down to a normal t-shirt, which I was happy about.



We drove over to the next spot and stopped for lunch prior to launching for drift number two of the day. I little while into the drift, I decided to crack open a birthday beverage. I figured, if I'm not going to catch any fish, might as well have an ice-cold (not really) bevey to enjoy. Well, as soon as I popped that top, I managed to land a few fish. All they needed was for me to have some liquid refreshment. Come on get in my boat, fish. Come on and get in my boat, fish fish. (You either got that or you didn't. If you did, you think I'm hilarious. If you didn't - well, you might still do) Sadly, my run was short-lived and not a great many fish were caught that day by me. Though my back-seat partner managed to grab himself a good number.


OH. This happened earlier, and I forgot to mention it, but the Dallas Mavericks gave me a great early birthday present by staging an incredo-comeback in game 2 of the NBA finals. Like, super incredo. I was pretty pumped to say the least.

Anywho. That about "sums up" the fishing trip. I did leave dinners etc out, because well, it would have been way longer than it already is, and there are only two places to eat there, and both are really just OK. Although I did have some delicious ribs night number one.

I hoped you enjoyed reading about out journey. I'll try and make the next post happen sooner than later, and certainly a bit shorter.



As our guide Dan would say: tight lines,
MD

Wednesday, June 8

Crime to be Broke in America

Today I went down to the ferry building because I forgot to pack my lunch. I spent $11 on a bento box that I didn't enjoy that much just because I couldn't decide what I really wanted. Then, because I have a bit of a sweet tooth, I stopped by the candy shop and spent $7 on a package of chocolate graham wafers. Later in the afternoon I went with a co-worker to grab an afternoon cup of coffee and spent $3.95 on a chai tea latte.

While we were sitting and sipping in the evasive sunshine, an old woman who looked a little worse for the wear approached. "Excuse me, pardon me for interrupting and bothering you but I am wondering if either of you can help me get something to eat" she said. I was taken aback at her demeanor, clearly downtrodden and embarrassed. I wondered what had made her choose me instead of the 25+ other people sitting in the same area. Immediately I knew that I wasn't going to be able to turn her down. "What do you need that you would like me to help with?" I replied. "Just maybe a slice of pizza or a sandwich, doesn't have to be much". Since the city has quite a large (and aggressive) homeless population, it is not unusual for people to ask for money and be upset when you offer them food. This woman seemed genuine. I asked her if she'd like to walk across the street to subway so that she could order her own sandwich. She grinned with an empty mouth and said that sounded just fine and thank you for not being rude. We quietly walked together through the crosswalk and into the shop, engaging in some small talk but unable to hear each other well. There was a lot of smiling and nodding.

The women behind the counter seemed surprised when I directed her attention to the petite woman dressed in sweats, missing some teeth when she asked for my order. My friend was fairly soft spoken, so I needed to be there to relay the requests. "What kind of bread would you like?" the server asked. Your softest kind was the response. Please add turkey and swiss cheese. Do toppings come with or are they extra? She looked at me for approval. "They come with the sandwich", I said. "Please, order what you would like". Tomatoes and a little bit of dressing. I paid the bill of $4.95 as the cashier still looked curious about the situation.

I walked back to work with a little spring in my step. I'm not sure how hungry she was or if anyone else had helped her that day. But I gained a little bit of perspective about the things that I take for granted and hope that I can remember this lesson. Everyone deserves to be shown a little kindness. Regardless of my other charitable contributions, sometimes it just feels right to give in the moment.


Thursday, May 26

triple chocolate chunk cookies & immigration

first of all,
scroll down and read the post from FTD.
i don't know why it got posted after my sickness post,
but it did.
read it.
she's funny.

though this is P's response to
"Stop the Bus!"

NO!

i'm trying to start my project searching
off with a bang.
so today, i started off with triple chocolate chunk cookies.
essentially chocolate chip cookies but with
milk, dark, and white chocolate chunks.
delicious, right?

i set out my materials,
*side note: i am not going to go through with the recipe,
and what to do and all of that.
plenty of really awesome bakers / foodies do that.
that's not what we're about here.
adventuring, and learning,
that's what we're about.
*2nd side note: i am also listening to intelligence squared podcast
while i pretend that mixing ingredients together
is actually baking.
you should subscribe to this podcast -
learning.
look how delicious all of that chocolate looks!

first, i tried my sheet pan usually reserved for
mom's chocolate sheet cake.
and what the heck!?
is it warped?

see how the batter all moved to the top right corner?
so there was no dough in the bottom right...
which meant it burned in 30 seconds.
awesome.

so i tried mini-muffins.
okay.
so they don't really look all that great.
if there were a picture in the book, i am sure mine would look exactly
the OPPOSITE.
but they taste delicious!
(and mom, i only had a couple bites of raw dough)

my across the street neighbor used them to bribe her son to eat his dinner.
i'd consider my baking a success.
(don't worry H, if you are reading this, i won't do this often,
blog about you i mean.)

by the way,
the debators on intellengence squared were debating
"should the U.S. stop taking the world's huddled masses." it got heated just around the time
 i turned on the mixer.
so i missed some of the yelling.
i was disapointed with the result.
of the debate, like i said, the cookies were
a success.

and after the baking,
and the podcast,
and cleaning up,
and starting a load of laundry,
at five - twenty five p.m.
i walked upstairs and discovered this sweet scene...


precious p peacefully passed -out.
(that was for you mom.)
for nearly two hours.  get well sweet p!
those cute little buns you see there in blue?

yep.  cloth diapers.
we're really doing it over here!
i'll keep you updated on our progress.
currently we are using fuzzibunz one-size pocket diapers.
and i have to go get them from the laundry so we can do round 2
tomorrow.
stay tuned for another thrilling blog post from
naptown!

AND, all you 16 readers - if you have adventuring / learning
project ideas, please send them our way!